Marriages should be banned

I know that many people are fighting for equality when it comes to sexual preference and one of the fight is to allow same gender marriages.

I believe that the way to fight for equality in this domain and be more logical is to fight to disallow cross gender marriages...Nobody should be allowed to marry...you get both equality and get rid of an abomination. Yes marriage is an abomination...its like trying to protect oneself against the one you "love"....A contract with somebody who you supposed to trust most. if you need a contract then that person is not your partner...look somewhere else or stop looking altogether.

Sure people change...but if you can't seperate like grown ups then you should not be allowed to marry in the first place ...

Would you trust your priest or politician or government civil servant with your savings ?
So why should they be important in your decision of living with someody or anybody ...why do you need their stamp of approval ?

Of responsibility and resposibility

It is interesting that when we have have things we have things that belong to us and others have no right on them but when we don't have then its fair game to try to have ...

Well then comes responsibility....when you are born in a comfy place you are not responsible to what is happening in a non-comfy place and its the responsibility of those born there to make that a comfy place. But then according to this argument one is responsible for the crime of one's grand parents or parents it seems. Hence the descendants of slave masters should not be enjoying the riches that come from such crimes.... but then where do we stop and where do we start paying back dues.
Is it possible....is there a standard ?

Who pays the debt of one's fore-bearers and who pays back the crime or restitute the booty of thefts of others' fore-bearers ?

Is it possible .... or shall we wipe all the slates and say we are all citizen of the world and start afresh now...with equal opportunity to all.... sure its hard to say what an individual will do (or not) with an opportunity but we have to be better in letting the door open for every one ...where ever you are from and not doom any one because of one's accident of birth...

Patriotism is a crime against humanity just like racism or religious superioritism (you know what i mean) or political absolutism/supremacism.

And using too many "ism"s in one sentence is a sure sign of lack of brain mechanism.