What is right by us

We tend to be very self justifying though we know we are doing something wrong...
Why is that ?

I don't know....
We are rarely wrong in our own eyes and we tend to see others as wrong more often.
There is a good probability that we are as often wrong or doing wrongfully things as what we find others doing.

Are there absolutes or are everything relative ? Many times the answer is the latter. But twisting the truth a little bit first time tends to make it easier to twist it a bit more later in our own mind.
And although we don't see the damage its doing as its only a small change...yet in total we cannot control the damage that such things does...Truth also causes damage but at least that is the fact we have to deal with it...its harder to explain why we should make others deal with our little lies isn't it (except for politicians where their truths and lies are not very different).